I am re-entering my life. Much has happened in the last few years that put me into a slightly shaky progression forward. First, of course, was the overwhelming impediment that we all experienced – COVID. Routine daily living was condensed into a limited range of options that was determined by the potential risks to our health. Ordinary events like how, where, and when to get groceries, do banking, or be with loved ones required complex planning. COVID-induced behaviors lasted for several years. In the span of a lifetime, this was a fairly short amount of time, but it resulted in disaster for many. Returning to relative normalcy didn’t happen all at once. Most of us waited until there was a vaccine before we began re-entry into the larger world. Bit by bit, we tested our comfort level as we tip-toed into the supermarket or got a haircut – with or without a mask. Cautiously, we began to have lunch with friends and dinner with family. In our surroundings, a few remnants of pandemic behaviors are still present like hand sanitizer dispensers in public buildings and pre-visit surveys for medical appointments.
In addition to this global adverse phenomenon, each of us experienced our own person-specific occurrences. Zooming into my own happenings, there were a few significant issues.
One was that the Newton TAB Aging in Places column that I wrote for almost eleven years disappeared when the print version closed shop in early 2022. I hesitated about continuing my articles online because I thought that many readers may not be comfortable with virtual publishing. I spent the last eighteen months trying to figure out what to do. During that period I had a nagging sense of disconnectedness from long-time devotees. This feeling was reinforced because people kept telling me that they missed my writings. I seemed to have been able to connect with people in a meaningful way. They would say, “You are writing what I’m thinking.”
Another pretty big incident happened this past February. In the middle of trying to get my fifth book, South Providence Girls: A Clique in Time, ready for publication, I had a totally unpredictable health problem that curtailed some of my familiar and satisfying activities. After months of mending and thinking, I realized I had to make a re-entry plan – to my writing and my connections. My strategy is to use this website to tell you about my latest books, post new and a few old articles, and occasionally share an opinion about something I feel is important to note.
I will publish on a somewhat regular basis and let you know when there is something new to look at. You can always unsubscribe.
So, I am re-entering my life path by writing for and connecting with all of you.
So honest and heartfelt. I certainly identify with your perceptions on how the pandemic and its aftermath changed so much of how we now live our lives.
Wishing you peace of heart during your re-entry! Life is a series of coming together and coming apart. I always remember that I met you on the eve of the Snowpocalypse!
so glad you have found a good path to re-entry and are back to writing a column. I think everyone is experiencing some kind of re-entry so this is very meaningful.
Wonderful! As you always are! Miss seeing you. Hugs
Marian: Right on! Right on point! Write on and on and on! Looking forward to reading whatever you write!
Thank you Marian. You have been missed. You shine light on many paths. I look forward to more.
Marian, you certainly are a talented writer, and I look forward to reading your future writings on any and all subjects.
Stay well from now on.
Hugs,
Soni Meyer (a South Providence girl)
Your writing (and our discussions) always speak to me! Like you, I have entered an new stage of life, and I am very pleased to be here!
I am looking forward to connecting with you via your writings. Continue to heal!
Heyo! Marian! It is ever a pleasure to hear from you, adding perspectives to my perspectives. I will keep an eye open for more of your posts about the now, reflections on the past, and musings on the future! I look forward to reading your book about your “Clique in Time”!
In the words of the prophetic Grateful Dead, “What a long, strange trip it’s been.” I’m so glad to have you back and writing! I’ve missed your columns and look forward to receiving your wisdom once again. Wishing you good health.
Glad to have your insightful voice back, Marian. Can’t wait to read your next piece.