I am lucky to have a house on Cape Cod. I acquired the land pretty cheaply fifty years ago when a house could be built for thirty-five thousand dollars. Hard to believe. Although it seems like not much money now, I need to rent it during the summer to pay for basic expenses. Without the income, I could not afford to keep it.
This year, I had an early rental – ten days in June – a rarity. Typically, I don’t get a chance to check out the house until the end of the season when I would discover the objects tenants left behind or that an item had been damaged. These are never big things; a faded t-shirt or a newly cracked coffee cup that I had purchased at a yard sale decades ago.
When I began the reconnoiter this year after occupants had left and as I was wiping down the vinyl tablecloth, I found something that I hadn’t noticed because it melded so thoroughly into the beige background – a tiny jigsaw puzzle piece. It was about one inch by three-quarters of an inch with several rounded jut-outs and indentations. Its design made it look even smaller. Because of its smallness, I assumed it came from a large puzzle.
In my storage area, I have dozens of second-hand jigsaw puzzles acquired at the aforementioned yard sales. Thousands and thousands of pieces. To which of these sets did this lone segment belong? Or any of them? It felt daunting. Will this one ever find its home?
To put this in context, I like to try to keep entities together and maintain wholeness. I guess it helps me believe that I have some control over my life. If I can’t find a missing sock after doing a load of laundry, I will keep the remaining singleton because, after long experience, I know that the mate will turn up sooner or later –stuck to a sweatshirt or a towel. Disconnected socks are unified quickly, but I never abandon the goal to re-join other items. I have several reusable nylon shopping bags with their own little pouches. There is one pouch that has been missing its mate for years. I keep it in the firm belief that these two items will be re-connected sometime in the future. Accepting the idea that I could have discarded the bag and given up hope of reunification doesn’t fit with my perception of myself and my fantasy about how I would like life to be; whole and all parts working in sync.
Another component is the satisfaction of solving a mystery. That gratification is short-lived in the case of socks, but not finding the nylon bag means I have an intriguing challenge still to be dealt with. This has certain allure because, for me, it is always good to have new and ongoing quests, even modest ones.
The real estate agent suggested that I put the fragment in a prominent place and ask future renters to find where it belonged. I realized there had to be a simpler way and, besides, I didn’t want to cede the delight of solving to anyone else. Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on which life-view I take, I found the puzzle piece’s true origin pretty fast, albeit with help. The agent asked the tenant and she made the identification. It was from a round, five-hundred-piece puzzle of the sixteenth century painting Winter Landscape with Ice-skaters and Bird-trap by Pieter Brueghel, the Elder.
I was glad to put the bit back into the scruffy container (with its strip of masking tape that says “$1.00”), but felt the loss of a potentially long-term, albeit, non-momentous mission to carry forward. Thankfully, my work is not finished. I still have the little shopping bag to search for.
I just love your writing skills!😊
Sheila, Thanks so much! your comment means a lot to me.
Oh Marian, it would be so good to reconnect! It has been so many years. Perhaps we could rent your cottage on Cape Cod and get together.
Linda,
It really has been so many, many years. Would love to reconnect.
I love your stories, Marian!!
Thanks Laurel! I love to tell these stories.
Very fun! great to hear from you Marian!
Alicia, So lovely to hear from you. Hope you are doing well. I am still writing and chugging along!
FUN!!!! These blogs are just great.
These blogs are just great. Good picker-upper for a hot summer day – especially this one with the winter puzzle piece!
Rachel, Thanks. Yes this was an attempt to write something fun in the midst of difficult times.
I truly believe there is a black hole in my abode where all things lost go. They convene and party in this hole, watching me undergo fretting and fussing about where the item could be. Sometimes an item comes back. I can relate to your feeling of wholeness when the item is found. Someday your nylon pouch will return, reconnect with its mate and all will be right with the universe.
Ann, It’s fun to think about the black hole and the partying that goes on there. You have added a dimension to my fantasies about lost things.
Someone who thinks or has the same idiosyncrasies as me that are seldom shared – we are either OCD or, as you said, love mysteries, or making life whole and complete! How refreshing you are to share the little tidbits of life that are behind our personal scenes!
Ronnie, I don’t think I qualify as OCD but I do love mysteries and like to have a few small ones in my life. Thanks for your lovely comment!
Thank you Marian for another fun and charming essay!
Actually, they are all wonderful, but this one, especially so, since it reminded me of the first essay I read of yours.
It was about a walk you had enjoyed on the beach.
The way you described the stones and shells in the sand that attracted you was lovely.
Your attention to detail was captivating and gave me yet another delightful moment to enjoy!
Thank you for sharing your insight and “joie de vivre” with me!
Ellie Starr
Ellie, Thanks a million for this. When I write something, I try to visualize it and then try to describe that ‘vision.’ This is where I see all the little details – like the strip of masking tape with $1.00 written on it – that I hope makes this picture real.
Marian: I really, really like this story, probably because it’s so whimsical. Your sense of humor peeks through so often that I had a smile on my face from beginning to end!
Les, this was a lot of fun to write! So many heavy issues surround us both in our individual lives and what is happening in the world. A little lightheartedness felt good to reflect on.
Loved the story—- the little addendum at the end about the bag was gem . The underlying “lesson” added was amusing, but also imparted a message to me about how we want to seek closure.
Harriet
Yes, closure is sometimes difficult to do. Emotions around even the smallest issues are complicated. I have found that as I get older I need to pick the things that are most important to resolve – or perhaps the least important to resolve since they are easiest.
I enjoyed reading this piece. I think that from now on, once I find my lost sock, I will be more attentive to the feeling !Thanks for writing.
Even humble socks can evoke emotional responses!
Wonderful, per usual. I do the same with socks, etc. My son thinks I am a hoarder. They are too quick to get rid of things and few have attachments to any stuff. I have amazing China from my mom and still hold onto it, knowing they don’t want it. Oh well!
Thanks for a lively piece amidst all if the chaos! Xxxooo
Donna, Sometimes I think that I hold on to things because I am a child of the Great Depression Era. But, I think this is only a small part of why I hold on to socks, etc. I really don’t have an emotional attachment to socks, especially when the heels wear thin and are on the verge of shredding. Mainly, I just think I want to try to make things complete. I guess I would rather throw out one whole pair of socks. The China that you have is a different story. This has some history and it can be emblematic of who your mother was. There may come a time when your son will recognize this and realize it is a gift from the past. Keep it!
Your writing is very visual- I feel the place and the moment vividly. I wonder if we don’t all want to make things “whole again” from the simplicity of a puzzle to the ones we love.
Thanks Linda. You are right about wanting to make things whole.
Dear Marian. Again thanks for your thought provoking posts! Mispalced things do seem to come and go… my efforts to unite them has dwindled a bit over the years. In reading your article just now, being promted to think and wonder about such an event, I have to ask myself how I would handle it. I decided that I would go down to The Frame Shop in Orleans and carefully select a frame and some colors of matting that would complement the piece, and mount the piece in a fairly deep recess of frame within frame of matting. The finished piece I would hang on a wall where I, and others, could observe and hopefully take pause to ponder the missing pieces in our world. Thank you for the inspiration Marian! And, for anybody reading this, don’t be surprised if one of your puzzles is missing a piece next time you go to do one.
Mark,
I love, love, your comment! As usual it is so deeply thoughtful. Yes, as you reflect, there are so many missing pieces in the world. Some of them are tiny like a puzzle piece. Others are big and amorphous without definable edges. These are the ones to worry about because we can’t envision what may suddenly emerge as destabilizers to our lives. How wonderful to frame the knowable pieces. But, what to do about the unknowable?
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